Chakras and sexuality

chakras and sexuality

Energy works in human body mainly through 7 chakras.There are 7 most important energy centers in human body and each of them represents a different energetic aspect of the universe or an element.

Starting from the lowest chakra where energy is heavier and has a slower/lower vibration and moving upwards where energy is lighter and has a faster/higher vibration. Starting from a more material form of energy and turning into a more spiritual energy upwards.

Energy is divided between the 7 energy centers and each of them symbolizes something from the universe.

Sexuality-related qualities of chakras

Muladhara chakra

Muladhara chakra is located in the perineum area and it is carrying the energy of the Earth and it is a chakra with the heaviest energy.

It is an energy ball with a diameter of ca 4-5 cm. Muladhara’s sexuality is the simplest, a powerful and animalistic form of expressing sexuality. Men and women with strong Muladhara energy are sexually very vital and they need a physically strong, intensive and longer lasting sexual intercourse to get satisfaction.

Muladhara chakra consciousness can be more open in people whose astrologic signs are of the Earth element: Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. There are women who say that if the man doesn’t grab her strongly and doesn’t take her powerfully, then sex doesn’t give much pleasure to her.

Gentle caressing doesn’t excite her. This is a psychological need that depends on the energetic level of the person. Muladhara chakra’s energy is the most materialistic in its nature and it works mostly at the physical, bodily level.

Svadisthana chakra

Svadisthana chakra is located on the pubic bone, for men 3 fingers above the penis and for women 3 fingers above the clitoris and it is related to the element of water.

This chakra is related to our instincts, emotions, fantasies and creativity. Svadisthana chakra is the most evolved and represented on our planet, as most of the Earth (ca 70%) is covered with water and also ca 70% of human body comprises of water, so the consciousness of humankind is mostly at the level of the water element. Most of the person’s sexuality is located in this chakra and sometimes it is also called the sexual chakra, as it is connected to the sexual organs.

For most people, Svadisthana chakra is activated when sexually aroused. The second chakra is where our sexual fantasies come from. If you like to be sexual in water, sea, bathtub or shower, if you are excited by wet t-shirts and wet and wild sexuality, all of this is on the level of the second chakra.

If a woman walks on the street, moving her hips sexually, and a man feels arousal while seeing it, that’s on the level of the second chakra. If a man and a woman are making love and their bodies are undulating in a flowing way, that’s on the level of the second chakra.

The sex on the Svadisthana level is wet, a lot of sexual bodily fluids are excreted, the woman is wet, the man excretes a lot of lubricant, the bodies are wet and sweaty. The partners kiss and lick each other all over the body, give oral sex. Svadisthana chakra consciousness can be more open in people who are astrologically of a water sign: Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio.

Some people have blockages at the level of Svadisthana chakra and they don’t like it at all. They are not excited by wet and sweaty bodies, they rather tend to be repulsed by it. Some women like their breasts to be kissed and licked, some women don’t like this wet feeling at all.

When they are asked, what they like, they say, they don’t like the wet but they like a hot and passionate touch and kiss, which is a different sensation. The consciousness of the second chakra is the most common and most people are on this level with their sexuality.

Most of people’s sexual problems are related to the second chakra. Those who are on the level of Svadisthana chakra, like to flirt and play with other people’s feelings. They seduce someone and then reject them. They behave ruthlessly and then again gently and caringly.

All such sexual games and sadomasochistic behavior, are manifestations of a degenerated Svadisthana chakra. They feel pleasure while torturing someone or when being tortured and feeling pain. All of the sexuality portrayed by Hollywood – bodies clinging together in bed, full moon romance, seaside or river/lakeside romance and falling in love.

All such romantic fantasies work on the level of Svadisthana. This is the way how Hollywood sees and reflects perfect sex and this designs the sexual fantasies of people all over the world. Hollywood shows what most people believe to be the right sexuality and love. Hollywood is purely about business and brainwashing and this kind of romantic story sells well.

Manipura chakra

Manipura is the third chakra, located in the area of the navel and related to the fire element.

Manipura creates passion, it is dry and hot and related to hot-blooded temperament. This chakra is more often dominating in Spain, Mexico and Japan. Sex at the level of Manipura is passionate, there’s expression of great desire and fiery feelings. The dynamics of sex is hot and passionate, sexual organs feel hot, not wet and cool. This is like Argentine tango or flamenco through sex.

Manipura chakra consciousness can be more open in people whose astrologic signs are of the fire element: Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. Manipura sexuality is seldom manifested in pure form. Usually it is combined with Svadishana chakra sexuality. Sensitively flowing, romantic and creative sexuality is connected with passion, fire and dominating.

Pure Manipura sexuality is often too extreme for people. How the deviations of Manipura sexuality occur, we can see in the countries where Manipura consciousness is prevalent. For example, Japan. Samurai culture is a clear form of manifestation of Manipura consciousness and in the samurai culture sex was not an everyday activity or something to be enjoyed.

Japanese men enjoy sexual power games where women are tied up, different games of dominating, submission and humiliation are played. It is important who controls and leads the situation. Feeling the power is more important than closeness or intimacy. Passion has another dark side. If a man in Svadisthana consciousness is jealous, he will make a scandal, cry and fall into depression.

If a man in Manipura consciousness is jealous, he will take a knife and stab you without thinking of the consequences. Crimes of passion are a manifestation of degenerated Manipura chakra sexuality. Degenerated Svadisthana and Manipura sexualities are very different in this sense. Manipura sexuality often manifests through violence. When we move up through chakras, this kind of sexuality gets more uncommon.

Anahta chakra

Anahata chakra is the fourth chakra located in the middle of the chest and it is related to the air element. Anahata chakra sexuality is gentle and light as air. It is tender and delicate, it is related to the feeling of freedom. The movement of hippies and flower children was driven by the Anahata chakra sexuality. To be free, to be me, to live in the nature, to be independent of the society and money. To live freely as a bird in the sky. This hippie movement didn’t carry a pure Anahata consciousness though and soon faded into the ideology of the capitalist west. Anahata chakra consciousness can be more open in people who have the astrological signs of the air element: Gemini, Libra and Aquarius.

The air element manifests in sexuality through touch. Hands are like the extensions of the heart chakra. People with more open Anahata chakras like to touch a lot, to caress, stroke, fondle, embrace. To express love through physical touch. Some people though are allergic to touch, they don’t want to be touched. This is a clear sign of a blockage at the Anahata chakra level. If partners’ sexuality is at the level of Anahata chakra, it can be very enjoyable when bodies touch each other. They caress their chests gently against each other and can experience ecstasy even without a sexual intercourse.

Feeling other’s body and skin touching their body can be sufficient for an orgasm. Gentle and light touch. Also, kisses are gentle and dry, as if without sexuality. Sexuality is sublimated into love. Pure Anahata sexuality is very rare. Some nations have more of it, depending also on the consciousness level of the nation. Anahata chakra sexuality is very beautiful. When people are practicing tantra and their sexual energy and consciousness reach heart chakra, their sexuality becomes much more gentle and sensitive.

It is like sacred sexuality, as if the gods would be having sex. It doesn’t include desire and animality, it is beautiful and pure and a little playful. When practicing tantra, it could be one goal to raise sexual energy to the level of Anahata and to be in this state of mind while making love.

Vishuddha chakra

Vishuddha is the fifth chakra located in the area of the throat and connected to the element of ether. This is empty space between the Earth and the stars, cosmic emptiness. Vishuddha chakra carries the energy of purity. The perception of time and space, pure intuition. Pure creativity in the sense of science and art, aesthetic feelings.

Sexuality at the level of Vishuddha is very rare. Some statues in Indian temples reflect sexuality at the level of Vishuddha chakra. This is demigod-like sexuality. The Tibetan Buddhists have a ritual where they make love with Dakinis. They are spiritual beings, demigods who are sometimes born in human body. Sex with a Dakini, superhuman goddess, where science, mathematics, arts and intuition are connected, is something sacred.

Vishuddha chakra sexuality is very hard to describe nowadays, as its consciousness is very rare and people don’t resonate with it, don’t understand it. This is one of the most problematic chakras because people don’t understand the purity that accompanies lovemaking at the level of Vishuddha. For most people lovemaking and sex has nothing to do with the purity that is reflected at the level of Vishuddha chakra. This is a kind of special approach to sexuality and if you can feel and understand it then it will make sense to you.

This is a co-existence of innocence, purity and love, as if Virgin Mary would make love with you. A woman who is the symbol of innocence, purity and motherly love. It is hard to even name it sex. This is a way of expressing love, at so high a vibrational level, that it is even hard to relate it to sex. In tantra sex is a way of expressing love. Love is the highest form of sex and sex is the lowest form of love.

Sex grows into love and love expresses itself through sex. They are naturally connected and don’t need to be separated. In the right hand tantra love is love and sex is not important or necessary. In left hand tantra love and sex are related and form an integrated whole.

If you experience sexuality at the level of Vishuddha chakra, it would feel like someone telling you “I love you” through mathematical formulas. It is a powerful, intensive, pure, innocent, perfect, cosmic experience, also reflecting clarity, wisdom and awareness.

It is like a pure symbiosis of consciousness and the feeling of love. It is very rare and it is likely that in the beginning you won’t experience it. If a person has an inclination towards the opening of Vishuddha chakra, (s)he can experience it sooner.

Ajna chakra

Ajna is the sixth chakra located in the middle of the forehead, the so-called “third eye”. It is on the level of the mind, and sexuality at that level is like the sexuality of the consciousness of angels and gods. It is the sexuality of pure consciousness and soul level that is very hard to understand. In India it is symbolized by Shiva Ardhana Rishvara, it is a symbol of Shiva that is in the form of half male, half female.

The right side is male and the left side is female. Man and woman together in one body so that they form an integrated whole. This symbolizes the vanishing of duality. Ajna chakra is the last chakra where duality is still manifested. If you manage to raise your sexual energy to Ajna chakra, then you’ll feel that it cannot get any better. The only way to rise even higher is to become one with the partner.

As long as there exist two lovers, Ajna chakra’s sexuality is the highest and most elevated experience.

Sahasrara chakra

Sahasrara is the seventh chakra and it is located above the head. Sahasrara reflects becoming one. At that level there is no duality, it is a level of pure consciousness.

At his level there is no sexuality, it is a state of pure meditation. Shiva is Shakti and Shakti is Shiva. At this level they become one and there is no longer those who could make love and engage in sex.

Tantra massage in Tallinn

Tantra massage in Tallinn. A voyage of discovery into the world of your deeper femininity.

Tantra Massage, also known as Tantra Therapy, is a holistic approach to our body and sexuality. Tantra Massage combines ancient Tantric teachings and massage techniques, offering a unique way to heal our physical and emotional bodies.

It is an intimate art of bodywork that expands our understanding of sexuality and helps us discover new dimensions of pleasure. At the same time, releasing the physical, energetic and emotional blocks in our bodies.

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A woman’s sexual opening in a Tantra massage session

Each day I see in my work women who cannot orgasm at all, can’t have internal orgasms or their sexuality is completely asleep.

Because of that their relationships with their partner’s suffer, also their health and their overall wellbeing. I can see more clearly how important it is to start paying attention to this part of their being, instead of ignoring it. Many men are desperate in relationships.

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Full Body Orgasm

Talking about male and female sexuality “full body orgasm” is not so often mentioned.

For many people this is like talking about walking on the moon, they have no idea what it is and if it even exists. Full Body Orgasm When a man or a woman gets an orgasm, then usually they have this intense feeling of release in the genital area. For men it comes with the ejaculation and for women often with the clitoris orgasm, sometimes with the lower vaginal orgasm.

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Yoni massage in Tallinn

Yoni massage is a type of Tantric massage that specifically focuses on the female genitalia and reproductive system, known as “Yoni” in Sanskrit, which translates to “sacred space” or “sacred temple.”

In Tantra, the Yoni is seen as a source of life and a place of deep wisdom and pleasure.

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Blockage release massage

Massage for Releasing Blockages: A Life Quality Changer

Massage therapy has proven its effectiveness over time in alleviating a variety of health issues. One of the most significant forms of massage is the blockage-releasing massage, which focuses on restoring the balance of body and mind by releasing both physical and emotional blockages.

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Marma massage

Marma Massage: Ancient Asian Healing Art

Originating from traditional Indian medicine, Marma massage is a unique therapy that combines ancient wisdom and modern techniques to offer a holistic approach to mind-body health. This article delves into the world of Marma massage, discovering its origins, techniques and benefits.

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What does the phrase Tantra Man mean

For many people the meaning of the mystic-sounding phrase Tantric man is quite unknown.

It sounds somewhat unearthly and many woman dream about a Tantric man entering their lives who should somehow magically solve all of her problems and make her happy at long last.

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Tantric massage and Polarity

The whole universe and all forms of life within it are working as a mutual interaction of positive (+) and negative (-) energies.

Starting from the energetic (+)/(-) connections at the atomic level, forming the tangible and realistically comprehensible matter, up to the rather elusive solar system and galaxies.

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Tantric massage and Menstruation

Once a month, on an average, women have a menstrual cycle of varying length and often a massage session coincides with the cycle.

Menstruation For most women this creates an unpleasant situation where they would like to come to the session but are afraid because they have feelings of shame and embarrassment related with their menstruation.

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Anima and Animus

Anima Derived from Latin meaning “a current of air, wind, breath, the vital principle, life, soul”, the Anima refers to the unconscious feminine dimension of a male which can often be forgotten or repressed in daily life.

However, in order to psychologically progress and reach greater internal balance and harmony, it is necessary for a man to recognize, embrace and connect to this latent element of his character.

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